“I truly believe that everything we do and everyone that we meet is put in our path for a purpose. There are no accidents; we’re all teachers – if we’re willing to pay attention to the lessons we learn, trust our positive instincts and not be afraid to take risks or wait for some miracle to come knocking at our door.”
— Marla Gibbs
It’s that time of the year again when everyone’s all excited about the advent of a brand new year. However, of late everything has been going down a suck vortex. As if the tragedy of an aircraft disappearing in midflight only to resurface in an ocean with floating bodies and debris was not enough, here comes more awful news of people dying in a stampede while celebrating New Years. Really!!! The world is getting too much for us.
Whither goes’ sanity. How do we deal with such heartbreaking failure that in hindsight could well be due to man-made errors? It’s really time somebody put a handle on error-free lives. Which is why systems, processes, methodologies, procedures, operations, actions, activities, tasks, undertakings, proceedings follow set protocols, conventions, formalities, customs, rules of conduct, rituals, code of behaviour, accepted propriety, civilities should be followed to the tee.
Someone has to ensure the punctilio of imposing the-done-thing. The norm, if you will, has to be followed without question. It will save us all from tremendous backlash. But all too often the person in-charge for imposing rules is looked upon with exasperation. He could very well be the leader, boss, top-man, chief, principal, director, president, chief executive, manager, administrator, master, patron – call him what you will.
Often we tend to look upon this person as a controller – which he actually is. After all it is his job. Maybe, one should see his role in its entirety and as one that safeguards your own back. If only the chain of command would have been followed. If only propriety would have been observed. We would have seen one tragedy, less. One dark night of turmoil, less. Are we not tired of tragedies? Are we not in need of positively taking on the right stance?
Let us then all affirm on this first day of a brand new year. Be positive in doing just what needs to be done. Everything else can wait. Follow the steps. It is really important you follow instructions while paying attention to details. Follow instructions, listen carefully, and execute skillfully. These are important abilities you will need to get through life. One should always take rightful steps to know what you are supposed to do. The world would be in complete chaos if no one ever followed instructions. This is why rules and laws are made, so our world can run smoothly and become a better place. You need to reinforce this lesson only in a positive frame of mind.
On this note let us move on to a growing need to govern your lives with positive self-regulation. HERD FOUNDATION wishes everyone a very positive New Year. Good cheer for 2015!
“Positive anything is better than negative nothing.” — Elbert Hubbard